Narcissism All It Really Is, And Why You Should Avoid It...Without Judgement

 

Personally, I refuse to call anyone a full narcissist, I will however say when someone is displaying Narcissistic behaviors or tendencies. This is because I do not view them as "bad" or "evil" people. And the term isolates a person into that type of label, the same way you get labeled as "crazy" or "imagining" things when you notice this behaviours in someone else. I have always stressed labels are judgments, and only the ego judges. 

All Narcissists really are, are non woke people still believing they are their egos, and that the Matrix is reality and that's all there is. This can be draining on a spiritually awoke person, but as awoken beings it is our responsibility to display compassion, empathy, and unconditional love while still forming our boundaries, lines that they cannot cross. 

When you have compassion, you do not feel "Sorry" for them or their behaviors, you just "understand" that they don't see the world the same way, and are still stuck in the construct of the "ego". You can sympathize with that, and hope and pray they someday heal, without letting them cross those boundaries. 

Yes you have to absolutely protect your energy from these people, you need to put up boundaries even if they seem cold. Because your energy, your light it is precious, but these people do not know any better, they don't know another way. 

And you have to be careful too, because you can have Spiritually confused people, who deny their awakening who can display narcissistic behaviours, and are not even aware they are hurting others with their destruction. So, if you label someone displaying these behaviors as one thing, your gonna miss the transformation. Keep them at arms length, of course, keep them out of your energy, but sometimes the ugliest caterpillars, become the most beautiful butterflies, it just takes them longer to get there.